Newlywed game questions

Eighty questions about your story, plus a host mode that deals them and keeps score.

Host the newlywed game

Add who’s playing. Partners write answers, reveal together, and you tap who matched.

How to play

  1. Add the couples. One couple is enough; a whole bridal shower works too.
  2. Ask the question. The host reads it out. Both partners write their answer on paper or in their notes, without looking.
  3. Reveal together. On three, both partners show their answers. If they match, tap "Matched" for that couple.
  4. Play ten rounds. The scoreboard shows who knows each other best.

Hosting a bridal shower? Split the questions so the bride or groom answers some before the party, and have the partner answer them live.

All 80 newlywed game questions

Every question in host mode. Most work for any couple; the wedding and married-life questions are grouped near the end. Print them, read them, or let host mode deal them.

  1. Where did we first meet?
  2. Where did we go on our first date?
  3. Who made the first move?
  4. Who said “I love you” first?
  5. What was your first impression of your partner?
  6. What was the first trip we took together?
  7. Who is the better driver?
  8. Who is the better cook?
  9. Who takes longer to get ready?
  10. Who is more likely to get lost, even with directions?
  11. What’s a phrase your partner says all the time?
  12. What’s the strangest food your partner loves?
  13. What does your partner always order at our favorite restaurant?
  14. Who usually breaks the silence after a disagreement?
  15. What’s your partner’s biggest pet peeve?
  16. Who is the bigger night owl?
  17. What was the first movie we watched together?
  18. What song makes your partner think of you?
  19. Who is more likely to cry at a movie?
  20. Who has the messier side of the closet?
  21. What job would your partner be terrible at?
  22. Who is more likely to start a dance party in the kitchen?
  23. What’s the best gift your partner has ever given you?
  24. Who is more likely to fall asleep during a movie?
  25. Which chore does your partner always find a way to avoid?
  26. Where would your partner go on a dream vacation?
  27. What’s your partner’s hidden talent?
  28. How did we celebrate our first anniversary?
  29. Who is the better gift-giver?
  30. Who is more likely to plan a surprise?
  31. What’s the funniest thing that’s happened on one of our dates?
  32. Who is the bigger kid at heart?
  33. What’s your partner’s favorite thing about you?
  34. Who is more likely to strike up a conversation with a stranger?
  35. What’s the first thing your partner does in the morning?
  36. Who has the better memory?
  37. Who is the bigger planner?
  38. What show does your partner rewatch when they need comfort?
  39. What does your partner call you most often, besides your name?
  40. Who is the pickier eater?
  41. Where was our first kiss?
  42. What’s the most adventurous thing we’ve done together?
  43. Who is better at remembering birthdays?
  44. What’s the worst meal one of us has ever cooked?
  45. Who is more likely to bring home a stray animal?
  46. Who is the bigger neat freak?
  47. What’s your partner’s most treasured possession?
  48. Who would last longer in the wilderness?
  49. What’s the best trip we’ve taken together?
  50. Who is more likely to sing in the shower?
  51. What’s your partner’s favorite home-cooked meal?
  52. What can your partner never leave the house without?
  53. Who is the better texter?
  54. What was your partner wearing on our first date?
  55. Who is more likely to talk their way out of trouble?
  56. What’s your partner’s favorite way to unwind?
  57. Who is the funnier one?
  58. Which of your partner’s habits have you picked up?
  59. What’s your partner’s favorite piece of clothing?
  60. Who takes the most photos when we travel?
  61. Where did we get engaged?
  62. Who popped the question?
  63. What was the weather like on our wedding day?
  64. What song did we first dance to as a married couple?
  65. Who cried more at our wedding?
  66. Where did we go on our honeymoon?
  67. What’s the best thing about being married so far?
  68. What was the hardest part of planning the wedding?
  69. Who gave the most memorable toast at our wedding?
  70. What was the first meal we ate as a married couple?
  71. What’s one thing about married life that surprised you?
  72. Who is more likely to bring up our wedding in conversation?
  73. What was the most useful wedding gift we got?
  74. Who controls the thermostat at home?
  75. Who leaves more dishes in the sink?
  76. Which room in our home is your partner’s favorite?
  77. Who hogs the blankets?
  78. Who usually calls first when we’re apart?
  79. What’s the longest we’ve gone without seeing each other?
  80. What’s one thing your partner wants us to do together this year?

Questions people ask

How do you play the newlywed game?

A host asks questions about the couple, both partners answer separately, and they score a point when the answers match. The couple with the most matches wins.

Do we have to be married?

No. Most questions work for any couple. The questions about weddings and married life are grouped near the end, so you can skip them.

How many questions should we play?

Ten is a good round for a party. Host mode deals ten and lets you keep going.

Can we play the newlywed game online?

Yes. For two phones in different places, play the couples quiz: you both answer and guess, then compare scores.