Couples quiz

How to play

1. Answer and guess. Each question has two parts: what is true for you, and what you think your partner will say.
2. Send the link. It runs in the browser on both phones. Nobody needs an app or an account, and your partner opens the link straight from WhatsApp, iMessage or Instagram.
3. Your partner does the same. They answer about themselves and guess you, without seeing your answers.
4. Compare. You both get two scores: how well you know them, and how well they know you.

Playing in the same room? Hand the phone over after your turn, or read the questions below out loud and keep score on paper.

50 couples quiz questions

The full list of questions, with the answers to choose from. Use them as a quiz, as conversation starters on a long drive, or as a game at a party.

1. If I planned our next date, what would we do?Dinner somewhere new · Takeout and a movie · Something active · A long walk and talk · A show or concert
2. What’s my favorite way to spend a lazy Sunday with you?Sleeping in late · A long brunch · Outside somewhere · Couch and a series · Errands together, honestly
3. What kind of message from you do I love getting during the day?A funny meme · A photo of something you saw · A quick “thinking of you” · A voice note · A call, not a text
4. When I’m sick, what do I want from you?Soup and medicine runs · Company on the couch · To be left alone · Lots of check-in texts
5. Which small thing you do makes my day?Making the coffee · Texting mid-afternoon · Laughing at the jokes · Remembering small details · Planning something fun
6. How do I like to make up after a disagreement?Talk it out right away · Cool off first · A hug before any words · Act normal and move on
7. What do I secretly hope you’ll do on my birthday?Plan a surprise · Keep it low-key · Cook a special dinner · Get friends together · Write something heartfelt
8. Which chore would I happily take off your hands forever?Dishes · Laundry · Cooking · Trash and recycling · Grocery runs
9. Which chore do I quietly hate the most?Folding laundry · Cleaning the bathroom · Unloading the dishwasher · Vacuuming · Making the bed
10. Which side of the bed do I sleep on?Left · Right · The middle, sprawled out · Wherever sleep happens
11. It’s takeout night. What am I ordering?Pizza · Chinese · Mexican · Indian · Thai
12. What would my ideal anniversary look like?A trip away · A fancy dinner · Recreating our first date · A quiet night in · No fuss needed
13. How do I feel about holding hands and kissing in public?Love it · Hand-holding is plenty · Keep it private · Depends on the crowd
14. How do I like to say goodnight when we’re apart?A phone call · A text · A voice note · A video call · No need, talk tomorrow
15. How often do I want a proper date night?Every week · Every couple of weeks · Once a month · Whenever it happens
16. What do I miss most about our early days?The nervous excitement · Staying up talking · The constant texting · Discovering everything · Nothing, now is better
17. Which of your habits do I find most adorable?The way you laugh · How you talk to animals · Your morning routine · How excited you get · Your terrible dancing
18. Which gift would make me happiest right now?Something handmade · Tickets to a show · A cozy upgrade at home · A day out planned by you · A favorite treat
19. How do I want to celebrate a big win at work?A nice dinner out · Bubbly at home · Tell everyone · A quiet hug and done
20. What do I always overpack when we travel?Shoes · Snacks · Books · Clothes for every weather · Chargers and gadgets
21. What’s my role on a road trip together?Driver · Navigator · DJ · Snack manager · Asleep in the passenger seat
22. When we travel, how do I like our days to go?Planned hour by hour · One plan a day · Totally unplanned · Pool and nothing else
23. What do I do when we can’t decide where to eat?Suggest three places · Claim no preference, then veto · Let you pick · Open the fridge instead
24. What’s my tell that I’m annoyed?Going quiet · Short answers · Loud sighs · Sudden cleaning · Saying “fine”
25. If something’s bothering you, how do I want to hear about it?Right away · After you’ve cooled off · Over text first · Face to face, not by text
26. How do I feel about surprise plans?Love them · Only small ones · Hints welcome · Rather just know
27. Which photo of us would I frame?A silly selfie · One from a trip · A candid nobody planned · A dressed-up one · The very first one
28. What do I think our superpower is as a couple?Making each other laugh · Teamwork · Talking about anything · Adventure · Comfortable silence
29. What do I want to do on the first night of a vacation?Find the best local dinner · Walk around and explore · Crash early · Hit the pool or beach · Unpack everything first
30. What do I do the minute we get back from a party?Recap every conversation · Straight to bed · Raid the fridge · Change into pajamas · Plan the next one
31. What would I want for breakfast in bed?Pancakes · Eggs and toast · Fruit and yogurt · Pastries · Coffee and nothing else
32. What’s my favorite thing to do together on a weeknight?Cook dinner · A show or two · Go for a walk · Play a game · Sit and talk
33. Which hobby would I love to start with you?Dance classes · Hiking · Cooking classes · A team sport · Gardening
34. How do I like to be greeted when I get home?A hug at the door · A shout from the other room · Dinner already going · A quiet minute first
35. How do I feel about sharing food off my plate?Help yourself · Ask first · One bite, max · Order your own
36. What do I think we should do more of?Travel · Date nights · Try new things · See friends · Stay in
37. What kind of double date would I enjoy most?Dinner party at home · Bowling or games · A weekend away · Drinks and a show
38. When I want your attention, what do I do?Sit really close · Send a meme · Start a random chat · Hover nearby · Just say so
39. When we’re out with friends, how much do I want you nearby?Stick close · Check in now and then · Do your own thing · Rescue from small talk, please
40. Which season do I most love spending with you?Spring · Summer · Fall · Winter
41. How do I want to spend the first warm day of spring together?A picnic · A long bike ride · Drinks on a patio · Planting something · Finally washing the car
42. If you booked a surprise trip, where would I hope we’re going?A tropical beach · A European city · A national park · A ski town · Anywhere with great food
43. What kind of player am I when we play a board game?Ruthless strategist · Rules expert · Chaotic bluffer · Happy to lose · Quits halfway
44. How do I like to spend the first hour after we wake up?Coffee and quiet · Chatting in bed · Straight into the day · Breakfast together · Back to sleep
45. Which movie-night snack would I pick for us?Popcorn · Candy · Chips and dip · Ice cream · Pizza
46. What’s my favorite way to end a date?A walk home · Dessert somewhere · Home with a movie · A late-night drive · Staying out till close
47. How do I feel about matching outfits?Yes, every holiday · Only as a joke · Coordinated, not matching · Absolutely not
48. What would I cook if I wanted to impress you?Pasta from scratch · A big roast · Breakfast for dinner · Something grilled · Takeout, plated nicely
49. What’s the fastest way to cheer me up?A silly dance · A long hug · A funny video · A snack · Something kind, said out loud
50. What would I love for us to do by this time next year?Take a big trip · Learn something together · Move somewhere new · Save for something · Host more often

Questions people ask

How is this different from "how well do you know me"?

In how well do you know me, one person answers and the other guesses. Here you both answer and both guess, so you get a score in each direction.

Are the questions okay for new couples?

Yes. Most questions are about everyday habits and small preferences. Three assume you live together (chores and coming home), so skip any that don’t fit. Nothing is explicit.

Who sees our answers?

Only the two of you. Your answers are kept with the round so you can see the result, and rounds are deleted 90 days after you play them. We never show answers on the share card.

Can we play again with different questions?

Yes. Each round deals ten new questions from the deck, and this browser remembers which you have seen so they don’t repeat until you’ve played them all.