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Love language test for couples

Take the test, send it to your partner, and see both your love languages side by side.

Take the love language test

Pick the one that would mean more to you. There are no wrong answers.

How to play

  1. Make 30 choices. Each one puts two kind gestures side by side. Pick the one that would mean more to you, even if you would like both.
  2. See your result. Your choices add up across the five kinds of gesture below.
  3. Send it to your partner. It runs in the browser on both phones. Nobody needs an app or an account, and your partner opens the link straight from WhatsApp, iMessage or Instagram.
  4. Compare. When they finish, you both see the two profiles side by side.

This test is our own, inspired by the love-languages idea. Every question was written for Stampkiss. It is not the official assessment and isn’t affiliated with it.

The five kinds of gesture this test scores

Kind words

Hearing it out loud or in writing: praise, thanks, "I’m proud of you", a note on the mirror.

Time together

Undivided attention. A walk with phones away, a meal without a screen, a plan made just for the two of you.

Thoughtful gifts

Not price. The proof that you were thinking of them: the snack they mentioned once, a postcard, a keepsake.

Helping out

Taking something off their plate: the dishes, the errand, the phone call they dread.

Closeness

Physical warmth: holding hands, a hug at the door, sitting close on the couch.

Questions people ask

Is this the official love language test?

No. It is our own test, inspired by the love-languages idea, and every question was written for Stampkiss. It is free and takes a few minutes.

Can I take it alone?

Yes. You see your own result as soon as you finish. Sending it to your partner adds their result next to yours.

What if my result is split between two?

That’s normal. Research suggests people value all five kinds of gesture, not just one (Impett, Park and Muise, 2024), so a split shows the two that count most for you right now. Both are worth showing.

What if we have different love languages?

That’s fine. Studies have not found that couples with matching results are happier (Impett, Park and Muise, 2024). The useful part is your partner’s result: it shows the gestures they picked most, so you know what to try first.

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